Monday 26 September 2011

A little more about Destiny Reflection...

Destiny Reflection was founded in 2007 by Smarita Sengupta and Becky Bavinger, two friends who shared a common goal of empowering female victims of human trafficking to become self-sufficient through dignified employment. 
 
Immediately after being rescued from brothel houses, these victims are brought to shelters sponsored by the government. One of the biggest problems is that these women have little education and few skills with which to acquire employment.

Every woman deserves opportunities. Destiny Reflection provides a safe environment and well-paid employment. All of the women at Destiny are either victims of trafficking or are at high risk of being sexually exploited. Many of them had been sold by their families at a young age. Once rescued, they were not welcomed back in their homes, faced social stigma, and had difficulty reintegrating back into society. Destiny Reflection has not only become their work place, but also their loving community.

Our aim is to economically empower women who are victims of human trafficking or those at high risk of sexual exploitation so that they may become independent. Destiny Reflection accomplishes 
  • Providing the final step towards recovery
  •  Training women with skills in sewing and block printing
  • Offering creative employment opportunities
  •  Supplying a fair living wage
  • Creating a healthy positive community
For more information, visit our website www.destinyreflection.org 
or our facebook page Destiny Foundation/Reflection

Contact us by e-mail reflection.destiny@gmail.com
or by phone +91 94338 83050

Our Neighbourhood - Gariahat, Kolkata

Our home on Dover Lane

Flooding at our front door after a monsoon

Pandal built on Dover Lane in celebration of Durga Puja

The stare with no smile - we get this a lot 
 

No Horn? Yeah right
 

Don't through your junk in my front yard, my front yard, my front yard
Don't through your junk in my front yard
My front yard is full

Notice the guy on the bike with the live chickens hanging upside-down on the bike rack

Sexy car man aka. Shahrukh Khan

ANRI Institute of Diabetes and Hormonal Disorders

There are signs on the bus that indicate where ladies and men should sit
Women on one side, men on the other

We sat on the men's side of the bus

The chickens made a new friend
 

Rice, lentils and potatoes

Vegetables

Fruit!

Street market


Pedestrian traffic control - a man holding a rope

Sunday 25 September 2011

The Liminal Moment – Our Arrival to India


By Christine

After an exciting day of touring Hong Kong with my friend Selwyn (who I went to high school with and is currently working in Hong Kong) our adventure to India was postponed.  Our flight to Mumbai was delayed by 2 hours and we were not successful at contacting Minal who was meeting us at the airport in Mumbai. Later we had found out that this was because she had lost her phone.

Hong Kong sky line.

Exploring the streets of Hong Kong, escalator in SOHO, with Selwyn.
The plane ride was an experience. We were exhausted and I was freezing cold even while wearing a sweater and blanket. When they served us food Lindsay fell asleep while eating and almost face-planted into her plate. I rubbed her shoulder gently to wake her up and prevent such a thing from happening. Just before the plane began its decent, there was an announcement that explained that the World Health Organization recommended that the passengers be sprayed with mosquito spray containing DEET before landing in Mumbai. The flight attendants walked up and down the aisles of the plane with an aerosol can in each hand spraying its contents over us. This was the strangest thing I have ever experienced on an air plane. Later I looked at the Map of India that I received from the doctor at the travel clinic in Vancouver. The area on the map where Mumbai is located was shaded in grey indicating that “... insect precautions are only recommended (negligible transmission reported).” 

Lindsay, Martyna, Silvia and I first landed in Mumbai at 3am on Sunday, September 11th.  As we stepped off the air conditioned plane and walked through the ramp into the Mumbai airport, I felt the thick outdoor air oozing into the airport thought the seal between the plane and the ramp. It smelt somewhat sweet. I welcomed the warmth after freezing on the plane.

Even before we saw our names on the sign Minal was holding, she jumped up out of her seat and waved to us when we walked into the international arrival hall. Minal is a friend of Dr. Rochelle Tucker (my professor). Although we had never met her before, she has no problem identifying 4 Canadian students. 
Minal organised 2 pre-paid cabs to take us to her friend Anu’s place where we were staying for 2 nights while in Mumbai. From the taxi I noticed that there was a lot of garbage that lined the streets. Along the road side, families lived in temporary shelters built from bamboo, and plastic tarps. Stray dogs and cats ran across the road.  A truck honked loudly as it drove past us; the back sliding door was open exposing a group of young children. I wondered why a group of children were being transported in a pickup truck in the middle of the night. 

In India people drive on the left side of the road. Out of habit I look right before crossing the street which is dangerous - nobody follows traffic rules. The painted lines on the road and traffic lights are irrelevant. Trucks, cars, rickshaws (aka autos), and motorcycles honk frequently to let each other know they are passing. In fact, drivers honk whenever they feel like it for no apparent reason. The vehicles weave in and out of traffic, and stick themselves into any space on the road that is available.  Nobody wears seat belts and many taxis don’t even have seat belts. I think this is crazy especially since drivers often break very quickly. People cross the street everywhere expecting cars to stop for them. Many streets are lined with fences to prevent people from jay walking. The roads are absolute chaos, but to the people that live in India it is a part of life. I am learning to embrace it and walk across the road calmly like everyone else expecting cars to stop an inch away. Until then I will continue to run when I cross an intersection.

Sunday, September 11th was the last day of the Ganesh Chaturthi festival in Mumbai. Strings of lights hung from the buildings. Although it was pouring rain, people decorated floats with statues of Ganesh and rode them down the street playing drum rhythms and dancing. The Hindu god Ganesh, is the remover of obstables. Ganesh is also considered the patron of “buddhi” - intelligence, wisdom, or intellect. The mouse is Ganesha’s vehicle, so the god is often depicted riding a mouse or with a mouse at its feet.  The mouse can symbolize a pest that destroys crops, or in other words an obstacle that can be overcome. (For more information check out Wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ganesha)


We made two awesome friends in Mumbai. Both Anu and Minal were so kind. Minal welcomed us to India at the airport and Anu invited us to stay at her apartment.  They both made the time to show us around Mumbai.
We ate lunch at a nice restaurant,

did some shopping,

saw a truck transporting chickens,

and succeeded at getting a cab (where four of us could sit across the back bench)....

... to take us to see the Gateway of India. The words engraved in the stone on the Gateway of India read “Erected to commemorate the landing in India of Their Imperial Majesties King George V and Queen Mary on the second of December MCMXI.”

And we drank coconut juice from a coconut.

 At the Gate of India, a little girl of about 10 years old tried to sell me a string of white flowers. She insisted that they were good luck. I shook my head “no” and walked on. She followed and laid the white string of flowers over the wrist of my right hand where I held my video camera which made me stick out like a tourist if I did not already. She would not take it back from me, so I placed it over the rail of the fence that surrounded the Gateway of India. The security guards stared at us as we walked by. I said “Hello”. Anu later told me not to greet anyone, especially not security or police officers. She said I could not trust them. After I said “Hello”, Anu heard the security guard tell his companion in Hindi, “let’s check them.” We had already passed the check point so there was nothing he could do. Clearly I have some street smarts to learn.  As we posed infront of the Gateway of India to take a picture, several men pulled out their camera and snapped a picture. This made us feel uncomfortable, we dispersed and walked away.

Mumbai is a large metropolitan city on the west coast of India.  There is a big difference between the living standards and the resources available to the rich and the poor. As we drove by large slums we noticed that some shelters had installed satellites. So some people are making enough money to eat, watch satellite TV and own a cell phone, but not enough money to buy land. As the plane took off from Mumbai on our way to Kolkata, outside the window we saw the vastness of the slums adjacent to towering buildings of the city. In Martyna’s words “it was mind blowing.”

Friday 23 September 2011

Lindsay's first impressions of India.

Hello family, friends, and anyone else who happens to stumble upon this blog! 

After much anticipation and hype, I am FINALLY writing my first blog post. It has only taken 2 weeks (including a week of hassle to even get internet access), but hopefully from now on I’ll be able to write every couple of days. The four of us left Vancouver for our co-op placement at Destiny Reflection in Kolkata, India two weeks ago today.  I can’t believe it’s already been two weeks! Time has just flown by! 

(By the way, if you haven’t checked out Destiny Reflection’s website yet [www.destinyreflection.org], do it! DO IT NOW! Also, they’re getting ready to launch a brand new website and product catalogue, so be sure to check back soon! They’re also on Facebook for all you social networkers out there...)

So here is my attempt to sum up the last 2 weeks as succinctly as I can. I apologize in advance for any long-winded ramblings.

Things I love about India:
  • The food! It is amazing. Period. I think my new favourite food is palak paneer and cheese naan. So good! Even Dominos pizza is good here (we ordered pizza online for the first time last night, and it was at our door in 26 minutes delivered by a very enthusiastic pizza delivery man).
  •  Where we’re staying. We’re staying in the Gariahat neighbourhood of Kolkata, and everything we need is close by, including both a street market and a fancy grocery store. Also, the lady who owns the home we’re staying in, Debjani, is fantastic! She is sooooo good to us and has such a good heart. She has been involved with a lot of NGO work here in India, and is currently the head of United Way in Kolkata.
  •  THE CLOTHES!!! Where else in the world can you get away with wearing bright orange tights with a matching tunic and not look like a complete prat in tights? Only in India! The clothes here are AMAZING and soooo full of life and color. Nothing like the usual drab of black and grey I see back home.
  •  Hong Kong. I mention this as something I love about India because it is only because we were coming to India that we were fortunate enough to have a 14 hour layover in Hong Kong. We had a great day seeing the city with a friend of Christine’s, and I really hope to be able to go back someday
  • I have yet to see a cockroach! This fact has far surpassed any expectations I had. However, I did see children feeding a rat in the street when we were in Mumbai...
  • The dancing! We went to a dance show/play last week at a school for underprivileged girls. I think Martyna is planning on telling you more about this, but it was so wonderful to see these girls dance such beautiful Indian dances.
  • The festivals. Thus far, we have experienced India as a place of celebration. We landed in Mumbai on the final day of Ganesh Chaturthi, experienced a blessing on the machines during Biswakarma Puja last Sunday (the ceremony involved prayer, food and flower offerings to Biswakarma, the Hindu god of engineering, the burning of incense, and a burnt offering that essentially resulted in a small, very smoky fire being lit inside the Destiny Reflection office!), and look forward to celebrating Ghandi’s birthday, Durga Puja, Kali Puja and Diwali. The entire city is currently preparing for Durga Puja, building huge Pandals (I probably spelt this wrong, but essentially it’s the structure where the idols of the god Durga will be displayed for worship), and buying clothes and gifts. Durga Puja is celebrated throughout India, but the celebration is Kolkata is the largest and most extravagant in the entire country.
  • Work at Destiny Reflection. Adjusting to a very slow-paced, relaxed working environment has been a bit of a struggle (essentially opposite to what we often experience in Canada); however, working at Destiny has allowed us the freedom to be creative and take initiative to implement our own ideas within the organization. Also, the girls who work at Destiny are AMAZING! After all the hardships they’ve faced, to come to work every day in such positive spirits is nothing short of remarkable.
  • Pantaloons. It’s the Indian version of the North American department store and it’s fantastic!
  • Our shower squeegee. It is excellent.
  •  Cafe Coffee Day. The Indian version of Starbucks, which is ten times better...times ten! It’s also our new favourite hang-out place.
  • Sexy pen man/sexy car man/sexy watch man aka. Shahrukh Khan. He’s basically the Indian version of George Clooney and he’s everywhere! We’re going to see one of his movies tomorrow night and I’m super excited about it. Check him out on YouTube! Type in “Chammak Challo” and click on the first video that comes up (by the way, it’s Akon that actually sings the song).
Things I’m still learning to love about India:

  • The heat. I typically shower 2 to 3 times per day because I feel so sticky all the time.
  • The pollution and the garbage. However, this is not unexpected and I’m getting used to it.
  • The dirt. My feet are dirty. All the time. I’m trying not to let this annoy me too much, and am compensating by washing my feet as often as possible.
  • The driving and the honking. People drive like mad here, at least mad compared to how they drive in Canada. I think it’s largely due to the fact that there are basically no road rules, apart from driving on your side of the road, but even that is not followed to closely. There are absolutely no lanes or lines on the road, and on streets where there is no barrier dividing the 2 sides of the road the entire street is basically fair game. And honking is constant. People basically drive with one hand on the horn and use honking to let other cars know they are coming up beside them since there are no lanes to separate the cars from one another.
  • Driving on the left side of the road. I’ve been here two weeks and it’s still weird. I always forget which direction to look when crossing the street, which makes crossing the road an even riskier endeavour than it already is.
  • People who give you directions, even though they actually have absolutely no idea where the place is you’re trying to get to. The same goes for cab drivers who say they’ll take you to where you need to go even though they have absolutely no idea where the place actually is.
  •  Working from 10-6 and then eating dinner at 8 pm. I’m having a hard time adjusting to eating dinner so late, but I will probably be saying the same thing when I get back to Canada and return to working 8-4 and eating dinner at 5:30 pm.
Other things to note about India:

  • People are not shy about picking their nose. I have noticed several people “digging for gold” in public places. One time we even had a cab driver who picked his nose the entire ride...he should be friends with the nose picker who studies on the 6th floor of the library at SFU – they would get along great!
  • I have yet to go to an LDS church since coming to India. However, we’re going to attempt to make the journey this Sunday as a group. Apparently it’s in the North part of the city, which is about a 45 minute cab ride from our house. Last Sunday we attended St. Teresa’s Catholic church, which is Mother Teresa’s church in Kolkata. It was pretty neat to see that. We’re going to return to go through the museum they have there sometime soon.
  • We spent 2 days in Mumbai on our way to Kolkata. While there we saw the most expensive house in the world and the Gateway of India where a half dozen Indian mean sprung cameras on us. Talk about creeping me out... On another note, we also made two really great friends in Mumbai!
  • We have yet to have class with Dr. Ro. We weren’t able to have class this week because we were working at an NGO fair for Destiny, so next week we’re having double the lecture. I’m really looking forward to it!
  • Funny story. On the flight from Hong Kong to Mumbai I took a sleeping pill to put myself to sleep. I woke up a few hours later to them serving dinner. So they set the dinner tray on my table-tray-thing and I started eating, but I was still incredibly drowsy. So partway through eating my meal I began dozing. My face was heading straight for my food, but luckily Christine woke me up before I ended up with a face full curry. Looking back on it, the whole situation was rather funny, which is why I’m sharing it with you.
  • I survived my first earthquake. On Sunday there was a rather large earthquake that affected Sikkim and the north part of West Bengal. Only aftershocks were felt in Kolkata. At the time I was cooking dinner and didn’t notice anything, but Christine was sitting down and said she felt her chair rocking back and forth. Crazyness.
  • Silvia has an app on her iPhone that allows us to listen to any radio station in the world, so we’ve been listening to the Peak every day at work. It’s pretty cool to hear a radio station from home on the other side of the world.
On a more serious note:

  •  We were coming home from the grocery store in a cab the other day and we were stopped at a red light when a girl of about 10 holding a baby came and knocked on our window begging for money. We had a car full of food with us, so how could we not give her something? We passed her a package of croissants out the window and she immediately grabbed it and took off running. About a minute later a half dozen more kids came running as fast as they could at the car. When they reached it they started banging on the windows quite forcefully and shouting at us to give them something too. We were all rather shocked by the behaviour of these kids. This also agitated the taxi driver and he began yelling at them and even got out of the car at one point. He was really mad. Looking back on the situation, I still can’t believe it happened. It breaks my heart so much that these kids have been raised under circumstances that have compelled them to act like this. I just wish there was something more I could do for them – a more permanent solution to helping them than passing them food through a car window.
  • Poverty is everywhere in India. We were able to see the slums of Mumbai from our plane when we took off from the Mumbai airport. The sheer size of them blows my mind. Also, I saw children and families sleeping on dirty blankets under an overpass tonight.
  • There are stray animals everywhere. Today alone I’ve seen cats, dogs, goats, cows and horses. The horses I saw today were the saddest looking horses I’ve ever seen. They weren’t really bony or anything, they just looked sad, which in turn made me sad.
  • As part of working with Destiny Reflection, we will have the opportunity to visit the Red Light District of Kolkata. From what I understand it is rather large. Many of the girls come from this area of the city to Destiny everyday. I think this is going to be a very eye-opening, life-changing experience.
I’d like to conclude with a question that I’ve been pondering. This might seem rather random, but it is a legitimate question. What happens to the stuff in the toilet when you flush it? In Canada the answer is obvious. It goes to the sewage treatment plant and the water is cleaned and so on. However, in a country like India that lacks a proper garbage disposal system and proper sanitation and sewers in many parts of the country, I feel like this is a real question to be asking. When I figure out the answer, I’ll be sure to let you know.

If you’ve managed to read this far I’d like to congratulate you on this accomplishment! I had not intended to write so much, but more has happened in the last 2 weeks than I realized and I wanted you to hear all about it. I promise the next post will be MUCH shorter! Thus far, we’re all doing really well in Kolkata and generally enjoying ourselves. We’ll see what excitement the next few days brings...

Sending you all love and hugs from India!

xoxo
Lindsay